Life's Chances

If you had the chance to change someone's life would you?

A question asked quite often and many answer "yes". But under which circumstances? And how do you know that making the decision you made helped them or hurt them? Sometimes you make a decision not really thinking about the other person. Just thinking about what is right for ourselves. Not because we wanna be mean right? ...but because you didnt think such a small decision would impact anyone's life. Every move we make causes an impact. We just arent aware of it at every moment of everyday. Ive made a few decisions I'd like to take back. But hey we can't go back and change things. This isn't The Butterfly Effect...haha. I really love that movie...but that may be another post. There are many moments that I think if I had a chance to redo..I would. Like certain people I've met...I'd try to go back and not meet them...moments in elementary I'd like to take back...moments in middle school....moments in high school...I could even think of something I did yesterday that I would like to take back...lol ....hmmmm...I know some are thinking...the decisions you make in life makes you who you are today. Believe me I have preached that to myself just the same. Still...that does not erase the curiosity of "what if"... what if I blah blah blah...then I would have blah blah blah...and could have blah blah blah *sigh*. Live life with no regrets?...lol yea I tried that too. Doesnt stop my mind from thinking...wondering. Not that I hate my life right now...oh no...i'm actually enjoying it. Its just moments in time that happened to cross my mind and made me think I wonder if that was one of those life changing decision for me...or them. Then it gets me thinking...I'm a pretty special person because if I hadnt have done that...or said that...or saw that...then this would have happened...and they wouldnt be who they are today...and they wouldnt know them....and they would have moved ....and they would be dead...and they wouldnt be who they are today and I wouldnt be the person I am today. Oh the endless possibilities of decisions...chances. Who's life will I impact next?