Sunday, January 18, 2009

Regroup And Regroup...You Do It Best

I dont know why but I get annoyed with people who try to know everybody. Not necessarily to befriend them all ...cuz there is a difference between being a friend, being friendly and being a groupie...but to be able to say "hey" when they see them around and tell people "yea I know them". Do you think this will make you cool? Hanging on to their every come and go? Does it not bother you to know you go out of your way to know their where abouts....that you use their actual real friends to get to them...and you dont know these people as actual real people but what they present to you around the way. Look at the places you are determined to go and let everyone know you are going so that someone can be on your ...jock? The thing is...you are titled a groupie when you switch from group to group dependng on how hot they are at the time. If the person is becoming popular on myspace...you make sure to say something like "lets kick it again" just so people can be like what they kicked it before? How cool! No. haha. Then a new person is becoming popular on facebook...gotta let everyone know you know them too huh? Next month someone is having a party...gosh what might you do to say your in that mix too? make it look like you are throwing the party too...when you arent. Promote it? Show up early? Funny thing is...you wanna make your name known...but thats all they know is your name. You wanna see your name in lights? Do you...but not at another's expense. The new people you group with at the time of their spotlight...they know you are a grupie...they know who was down for them and who is with them before the beginning til the end. The ony one who doesnt is...you. Why regroup and regroup...we are all one big people and there is no need to try to know everyone...its impossible...plus..there are so many connections that once you know one person...you know them all...you see them all. The difference between friends and groupies is that no matter how many people friends meet around the way...they can differentiate between friends, associates, friends of friends, and associates of friends. If you feel empty inside...being a groupie wont fill the emptiness...the hype comes every now and then. Or maybe you know that...thats why you regroup and regroup...smh.


Notice it was written as though I am talking to the person...doesnt mean I'm talking to you. However, if you think "hey, this sounds like me"...then honey...it probably is...

Truth Hurts

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